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Living with a terminal illnessMany people learn that they are suffering from a terminal or life-threatening illness from a doctor, at a stage when they may still feel only a little unwell and the idea that they may be going to die is completely unexpected. Most of us remain completely unprepared for our own deaths and the shock of having to confront it. Everyone has to find their own way of coping and whilst everyone handles things in different ways, the reactions and range of emotions and feelings of most people can follow a fairly typical path. By understanding and acknowledging these wide ranging emotions, it can help the sufferer, their carers and friends and family to cope with the situation. It also gives an opportunity, however painful to plan, prepare and say goodbye. Reactions: Shock and disbelieve: like bereavement, the first reaction is usually one of disbelieve. This is a very normal response for both the person who is ill and those closest to them and may last for several days. Denial: The shock of the initial diagnosis usually gives way to denial to the person who is diagnosed with a terminal illness and those closest to them. During this period you may experience a range of emotions and will finally come to terms with the situation. Anger and Grief: Coming to accept the diagnosis and the situation you may experience a feeling of anger. A sense of grief for what is being lost- health, children, happy years of the past and future. The carer might also experience these feelings often mixed with guilt. Fear: Some people have a natural fear of dying and the pain and symptoms associated with the illness. Towards the end people may come to terms with their own death. Services that may be able to offer support and guidance Nationally
The Befriending Network
Caring Decisions (support website)
Cancer BACUP Full interpretation services available in any language, please ask for details.
Cross Roads Caring for Carer's
Helped the Aged
Hospice Information Service UK directory of hospices and palliative care services and information for members of the public as well as professionals caring for people with life threatening or terminal illness.
Macmillian Cancer Relief:
Marie Curie Cancer Care
The Samaritans
Terrance Higgins Trust Provides information and help on Aids and HIV infections Local
Waltham Forest Crossroads - Caring for Carers LTD
Samaritans of Waltham Forest
Age Concern Waltham Forest |
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